Eighteen months on zoom. Some of us more than others. Maybe it was Facetime for you. It really doesn’t matter. One thing is true of us all: We all stared at ourselves for eighteen months. If your image was the on the screen, you found it, stared at it, scrutinized it and fixated upon it.

If you’re thinking, no, not me – remember, this is not the day to fool yourself. Zoom is a mirror. A movie happening in real time and you are the star. You get to curate the set, the costume, the make up. You get to decide what the world sees of you and gets to know about your home or office.

All that is left to do once the host admits you is stare. At yourself...